Questions Every Founder Should Ask VCs Before Taking Their Money

Most founders pitch hard and listen passively. The ones who close better deals flip the script — interrogating investors before any term sheet appears.

Jason KirbyJason Kirby· May 28, 2024· 5 min read
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The short version

  • Ask investors which fund they're deploying from and how many deals remain — no capital means no deal, no matter how warm the meeting felt.
  • Questions about risk, failure, and product fit surface real conviction; vague answers mean the VC hasn't done the work.
  • The median 2023 software M&A revenue multiple was 2.04x — not the 8.42x average. Build your exit model on the median.
  • Your first-meeting goal is only to earn a second meeting. Treat it like a first date, not a closing call.
  • Warm introductions, sector-aligned funds, and a clean deck are table stakes before any of these questions matter.

Most founders obsess over perfecting their pitch and forget that an investor meeting is a two-way interview. The VC is sizing you up, yes — but you should be sizing them up just as hard. Walking out without asking tough questions isn't humility; it's how you end up partnered with someone who has no capital, no conviction, and no intention of writing a check.


Why Interrogating Investors Is Non-Negotiable

The last few minutes of any pitch meeting are the most valuable time you have. Most founders waste them with a polite "do you have any questions for me?" and leave having learned nothing about the person across the table.

Early-stage fundraising is full of people who will gladly take your time, stroke your ego, and never wire a dollar. The pattern is always the same: they lean in during the meeting, praise your vision, drag you through two more calls, and eventually pitch you on something they need instead. The investors who were serious walked away early — because those founders came in broadcasting, not conversing.

An intro call isn't a one-way street. It's your chance to ask hard questions and understand the VC's motivations before you spend another minute on them.

Turning the meeting into a dialogue also signals to serious investors that you think like an operator — you're running diligence on your potential partners the same way they're running diligence on you.


The Questions That Actually Matter

These aren't softballs. Each question below serves a specific filtering purpose — use them to qualify the investor, surface red flags, and understand exactly what you'd be getting beyond the wire transfer.

Fund mechanics

Ask these first. They tell you whether a deal is even possible before you invest another hour.

  • "What fund are you investing out of?" — Tells you their current vintage and whether capital is actually available
  • "How many deals do you have left in the fund?" — A fund on its last one or two investments has different urgency and risk appetite than one deploying year one

Market perspective

  • "Who else have you seen in this space? What did you like or not like about them?" — Reveals their competitive map and whether they're actively seeking deals in your category
  • "What do you find most risky or difficult about building in this space?" — Surfaces their objections before they become silent killers; also tells you whether they've done real homework

Conviction and fit

  • "Does the fund have a thesis on this market and where it's heading?" — A VC without a thesis in your sector brings money but no leverage; you want someone who will open doors, not just watch
  • "Would you buy or use our product? If not, why not?" — Blunt, but the answer tells you everything about genuine interest vs. polite engagement
  • "Why do you think my business will fail?" — Counterintuitive but powerful; a thoughtful answer means they've done the work; a vague answer means they haven't

Terms and support

  • "What comes along with the money?" — Clarify board seats, pro-rata rights, reporting requirements, and any operational involvement upfront
  • "What partner relationships and introductions come with the investment?" — Understand what doors they can open and whether their portfolio is relevant to your next hire, customer, or co-investor

How to Prepare Before You Walk In

Asking great questions only lands if you've done the groundwork first. Walking in blind and firing questions looks reactive; walking in informed and asking sharp follow-ups looks like exactly the kind of founder a VC wants to back.

The objective of any first meeting is simple: get a second meeting. You are not closing a deal, you are not asking for a term sheet, and you are not trying to get married on the first date. You are building a relationship that earns more time.

How to prepare:

  • Research the firm's portfolio, fund history, and recent investments before the meeting — know which sectors they've backed and which they've passed on
  • Get a warm introduction through a shared connection if at all possible; cold outreach has a fraction of the conversion rate
  • Confirm their investment focus aligns with your sector before booking; if they have no portfolio companies near your category, the meeting is likely a waste
  • Have one clear ask for the end of the meeting: a specific next step, not a vague "let's stay in touch"

If your deck isn't ready to support these conversations, deal with that first. A v43 deck with misaligned design sends a signal before you open your mouth. DECKO — a team of active VCs who build decks for founders — is worth looking at if you want the expertise without the iteration spiral. For pitch deck reviews before you go live, you can also submit your deck for a free roast, or use Your pitch deck built by VCs and designers for a full build.


The M&A Benchmark Every Founder Gets Wrong

Understanding your exit landscape changes how you negotiate with investors — and most founders are working from the wrong number.

An analysis of 3,493 private software M&A transactions in 2023 — covering 2,062 SaaS deals and 1,431 traditional software deals — shows a stark gap between the average and median revenue multiples. The average revenue multiple was 8.42x. The median was 2.04x.

That spread is not a rounding error. It is the result of a small number of high-value outliers pulling the average far above what the typical deal actually looks like. If you are building your exit expectations around the average, you are building them on a lie.

For realistic exit planning, anchor to the median. The average tells you what the best deals look like. The median tells you what your deal will probably look like.

Founders who understand this go into investor conversations with calibrated expectations — and VCs respect that immediately.


Going Public: An Additional Path Worth Understanding

For founders considering alternatives to a traditional VC-backed exit, the IPO path — including micro and small-cap public listings — is more accessible than most assume. Peter Goldstein, founder and managing director of Emmis Capital and CEO of Exchange Listing, is one of the more credible voices on this. He's a serial IPO entrepreneur who has spent his career helping private companies navigate the transition to public markets, with a focus on micro to small-cap opportunities that traditional banks ignore.

His core argument: more companies qualify for a public listing than founders realize, and the capital markets dynamics for smaller companies look very different from the mega-IPO narrative most people have in their heads.


Tools Worth Knowing

A few services that come up repeatedly in founder conversations about capital and operations:

Questions founders ask

What questions should I ask a VC in a first meeting?

Ask which fund they're investing from, how many deals remain, what they've seen in your space, what they find risky about your sector, whether they'd use your product, why they think your business might fail, and what support comes with the money beyond the wire.

What is a realistic revenue multiple for a software M&A exit?

The median revenue multiple across 3,493 private software M&A deals in 2023 was 2.04x, not the 8.42x average. Outliers skew the average heavily — anchor your exit planning to the median.

What should my goal be for a first VC meeting?

Win a second meeting. You are not closing a deal or asking for a term sheet. The objective is to build enough rapport and demonstrate enough credibility that the investor wants to spend more time with you.

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